Showing posts with label Commandments. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Commandments. Show all posts

Sunday, February 22, 2015

Are we Not All Beggars

Lately I have been thinking a lot about giving--especially during the holidays.

As most of you know, I work at LDS Philanthropies. It is a department of the Office of the Presiding Bishopric. We facilitate philanthropic gift to the Church's priorities. 
We give people the gift of giving.
 We are truly changing and saving lives. Hearts are changing and happiness is growing. Many of these donors are so consecrated. Many really strive to walk as he walked. 
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My Grandma Selman
When I was in preschool my mom used to drop me off at Grandma's on her way to work. Grandma and I spent a lot of time together. Time that I still deeply cherish today. One thing that always predominately sticks out to me when I think about my Grandma is how selfless she is!! I remember Grandma so willingly giving away any excess she has to people around her in need. 

And Jesus sat over against the treasury, and beheld how the people cast money into the treasury: and many that were rich cast in much. And there came a certain poor widow, and she threw in two mites, which make a farthing. And he called unto him his disciples, and saith unto them, Verily I say unto you, That this poor widow hath cast more in, than all they which have cast into the treasury: For all they did cast in of their abundance; but she of her want did cast in all that she had, even all her living (Mark 12:41-44). 

She definitely exemplifies the "widow's mite." Even today I constantly see her giving and serving others and doing what the Lord would want her to do with her time (indexing, temple attendance, visiting teaching....). She truely "giveth all that she hath."


“In this world it is not what we take up, but what we give up, that makes us rich.” 
-Henry Ward Beecher

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Nearly every week at work I am able to see the JOY that comes to these donors that give. I hear stories of how these donors lives are changed--how blessings from heaven pour down upon them. How they continue to give because they love how it feels to give without expecting anything in return.  
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“Wishing will not make it so.  The Lord expects our thinking.  He expects our action.  He expects our labors.  He expects our testimonies.  He expects our devotion.” 
–President Thomas S. Monson
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The Happy Giving Statistic
Arthur C. Brooks has giving many speeches regarding the paradox of giving. 

"In 2003, while working on a book about charitable giving, I stumbled across a strange pattern in my data. Paradoxically, I was finding that donors ended up with more income after making their gifts. This was more than correlation; I found solid evidence that giving stimulated prosperity. . . . that donating and volunteering bring a host of benefits to those who give . . . [such as] happiness.

"None of this is exactly revolutionary; after all, Jesus himself taught his followers, 


“It is more blessed to give than to receive... Giving empowers us to breathe more meaning into our lives ”
For the rest of the short article click HERE.
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“Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me." (Matthew 25:40)
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Recently in General Conference Elder Holland gave a wonderful talk titled,
 "Are we Not all Beggars?"

In his conclusion he said:
"In that regard, I pay a personal tribute to President Thomas Spencer Monson. I have been blessed by an association with this man for 47 years now, and the image of him I will cherish until I die is of him flying home from then–economically devastated East Germany in his house slippers because he had given away not only his second suit and his extra shirts but the very shoes from off his feet. “How beautiful upon the mountains [and shuffling through an airline terminal] are the feet of him that bringeth good tidings, that publisheth peace.” More than any man I know, President Monson has “done all he could” for the widow and the fatherless, the poor and the oppressed."


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“What we have done for ourselves alone dies with us; what we have done for 
others and the world remains and is immortal.” ― Albert Pike
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I feel that my grandmother understands this simple principle oh so well. I have thought about her example many times throughout my life. Her Chirstlike example inspired me to be better, to be more selfless and loving with "my neighbors". I see her giving so freely. My Grandma often donates to the Church. She gives without a thought about herself and what would be more economically profitable for her.
She just gives.
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"We must walk as He walked" - Thomas S. Monson
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"For behold, are we not all beggars? Do we not all depend upon the same Being, even God, for all the substance which we have, for both food and raiment, and for gold, and for silver, and for all the riches which we have of every kind?" (Mosiah:4:19)


He is the Gift.

All that we have is because of Him. Utilizing our resources are ways in which we can share the gift and give back to him.

When we seek to serve others with love we are like the wise men who seeked out the Lord and followed the star.
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I am far from perfect when it comes to giving. I constantly need Him. He gave his life for me. He leads me to hope through the Atonement--His amazing gift to us. May we continue to share the gift by following His example. By being a disciple of Jesus Christ. By loving as he loves. 

He is my Savior.
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May you keep His spirit and the spirit of giving with you throughout the year.

Friday, January 31, 2014

Thank you...For listening

I have had some special experiences this week.

Earlier this week I texted my friend that I met at college last year. I was just asking how she was doing and saying we should catch up. Turns out that she wanted to talk to me about something going on in her life and was hesitant to text me. So she was super grateful that I listened to my prompting. The next day we talked for four hours. I wasn't able to get any work done but I was able to help someone (even if it was just a little). She was very grateful. It's still so fulfilling to me. It truly brings me much happiness when I help others.
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Today I went to the library to do some homework and they were advertising a technology open house. I felt like I should do it, and since I didn't want to do my homework (surprised?) I decided to go on the tour, get my hubby a free t-shirt, and find all the cool free stuff that the Herald B. Lee Library offers. (And let me tell you, it's awesome!). One of the stops was the family history section as I was approaching the door to enter there was an old man leaving. This is pretty normal considering a lot of old people come to work on the family history when they retire. This old man was looking down at the floor. I wanted to say hi to him (I have a thing for old men, I don't really know what it is.. I just really like a particular type of old men. I always have). So I did and said "hello". 

I walked a little slower to make sure that he would look up at me so he would know that I wanted to say hi to HIM. He took a moment but eventually slowly looked up since I was waiting for him. Then he said hi back and kept walking. After that I continued walking, feeling really good that I did something right. I felt like I was supposed to say hi to him (not just because I like old people). It was great.  

But then I heard him say, in the most humble and sweet tone, "Thank you for saying hi to me... and having me look up." 

I was deeply touched.

I don't know what that man is going through, but I felt like my little gesture really had an impact. I felt like I showed him love when he needed it. I turned around and said "you're welcome" with a nice smile, but he didn't turn around to say his comment. It sounded like it took a lot in him to reply those few words. Then I added, "have a nice day."  

I really feel like I have a special gift. Like most people, when I am not worried about school stressed about different things that happen in life,  I act a little different but I love when this part of me is able to be expressed. I feel like I can be an instrument in Heavenly Fathers hand  more. I can notice these tender moments more. I hope once I graduate, I will be able to develop this part of me more so that I can bless and uplift others and have them feel the LOVE of Christ more. 

I'm so grateful that my mother has always taught me, "people matter more." Because it's true, the purpose in life is to bring people to Christ. And what not a better way than to share Christ's love?


"May we show our love and appreciation for the Savior’s atoning sacrifice through our simple, compassionate acts of service...It is only when we love God and Christ with all of our hearts, souls, and minds that we are able to share this love with our neighbors through acts of kindness and service—the way that the Savior would love and serve all of us if He were among us today....The love the Savior described is an active love. It is not manifested through large and heroic deeds but rather through simple acts of kindness and service"

--Elder Ballard; FINDING JOY THROUGH LOVING SERVICE


“In all that you do, in all that you learn, in all you try to accomplish in life, please remember that we are all sons and daughters of God. We have to help each other.” 
—Elder M. Russell Ballard of the Quorum of the Twelve


“And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself” (Matthew 22:36–40).

“A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you. … By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another” (John 13:34–35).


Monday, August 26, 2013

Mother Teresa

I really liked this quote and the new perspective it gives to loving our neighbor. 

"At the end of life we will not be judged by how many diplomas we have received, how much money we have made . . . We will be judged by ‘I was hungry and you gave me to eat, I was naked and you clothed me, I was homeless and you took me in.’ Hungry not only for bread—but hungry for love. Naked not only for clothing—but naked for human dignity and respect. Homeless not only for want of a room of bricks—but homeless because of rejection.” ~ Mother Teresa